act confident
Act confident, even if you don’t feel that way. When it is your turn, walk briskly to the front of the room, look at your audience, and establish eye contact. If appropriate to your subject, smile before you begin your presentation. Whatever happens during your speech, remember that listeners cannot see and hear inside you. They know only what you show them. Show them a controlled speaker communicating well-researched and carefully prepared ideas. Never place on your listeners the additional burden of sympathy for you as a speaker—their job is to listen to what you are saying. Don’t say anything like “Gee, am I scared!” Such behavior may make the audience uncomfortable. If your mind should go blank during a presentation, don’t panic. Go back over what you have just said, as though you are giving your audience a reminder. They will appreciate the help, and you will give your mind a chance to get back on track. Above all, keep talking. You will find your way. If you put your listeners at ease with your confident appearance, they can relax and provide the positive feedback that will make you a more assured and better speaker.
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